How to Conduct a Seder
The 14 steps of the seder, briefly explained.
A seder at the University of Buffalo. Photo: University at Buffalo Reporter
3. The Four Questions.
4. The Response to the Questions. Read portions in unison. Have other portions recited by different individuals at the table.
(a) The Four Sons. Play up this part. Discuss different types of reactions to Judaism.
(b) Since the cup of wine represents the "cup of salvation", it is lifted when we recall God's promise to Abraham, emphasizing His eternal watchfulness.
(c) Note how the biblical verses (Deuteronomy 26:5-8) are elaborated upon, phrase by phrase.
(d) The Ten Plagues. Since our "cup of salvation" cannot be regarded as full when we recall the suffering of the Egyptians, a drop of wine is removed from the cup with the mention of each plague.
(e) Dayenu. Let all present join in the refrain.
(f) The explanations of the three principal symbols: the lamb bone, the matzah, and the bitter herbs. Highlight this section at your seder.
5. The cup is again lifted in joy, thankful for God's deliverance, ready to praise Him with the first word of the Psalm of praise (Hallel).
6. Two Psalms of the Hallel.
7. Drink the wine, with the blessing of salvation.
VI. Rohtza--Lave. Ready to eat, the hands are washed before the meal, as is required at any meal similar to the previous hand-washing. Now, though, all wash with the usual benediction as the hands are dried.
VII. Motzi-Matzah. The first food at the meal is, as usual, bread (naturally, however, this bread--the matzah--is unleavened bread). The usual berakhah [blessing]--the motzi--is recited. However, before eating the matzah, a second berakhah, thanking God for the requirement to eat matzah, is recited.
VIII. Marror--Herbs. Small pieces of horseradish are dipped into the haroset (symbolic of mortar) to indicate that overemphasis on material things results in bitterness. Before eating it, a berakhah thanking God for this requirement is recited. Some people mix the ground horseradish with charoset, combining this with "IX."
IX. Korekh--Hillel Sandwich. In ancient times, Hillel ate the three symbolic foods (lamb, matzah, and bitter herbs) together so that each mouthful contained all three. Thus the symbols of slavery and of liberation were intermingled. Now that we do not have the Paschal lamb, we eat just the matzah and horse-radish in a "Hillel sandwich". No special berakhah is said, but we do read the words recalling Hillel's practice.
X. Shulhan Orekh--Meal. The joyous feasting gives us the feeling of human fellowship in harmony with God.
XI. Tzafun--Dessert. Now the afikoman. Either someone has "stolen" it, or parents can hide the afikoman when it is first put aside (IV) and let the children look for it during the meal to win a prize.
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