Jewish Mourning
The Tombstone, the Unveiling and Visiting the Grave
What happens at the Jewish cemetery.
When Death Occurs
At death, several gestures indicate respect for the deceased as well as acceptance of the reality of death.
Questions and Answers About Jewish Funerals
Common questions about Jewish death and burial customs.
The Graveside Service
Mourners, friends, and relatives accompany the deceased to the grave and help with the burial.
How to Give a Jewish Eulogy (Hesped)
This speech honoring the deceased is an important ancient Jewish custom.
The Casket, or Aron
The rabbis mandated a simple wooden coffin to equalize people in death and to enable the return to dust.
Tahara, Preparing the Body for Burial
A Jewish ritual cleansing of the deceased fulfills the verse from Ecclesiastes 5:14, "As we come forth, so we shall return."
Yahrzeit: Remembering on the Anniversary of a Death
Lighting candles and saying Kaddish each year in memory of a loved one.
Why Parents Are the Only Loved Ones Traditionally Mourned a Full Year
Rites for mothers and fathers are more demanding than those for other relatives, even siblings, spouses and children.
Sheloshim: The First 30 Days of Mourning
Following shiva, the sheloshim period of less intensive mourning lasts until the 30th day after the funeral.